Sunday, November 7, 2010

Heart of the Matter

It's almost noon yet the entire house is still fast asleep..this is except for myself, my cute little dog Scottie and our busy househelps.

Spent a marvelous time with the girls last night. I'm truly blessed to have three amazing girl friends whom I truly get along with and who are real, not pretentious and are super fun to be with. :) No issues over non-issues, no bloated egos, just plain old fun over stories and laughter shared all around. It's just like going back to basic. This is what friendship is all about.

It's funny that I woke up to this SMS sent by Mr Ube (of Eng Bee Tin Hopia).
"Don't stress yourself with useless people who don't even deserve to be an issue in your life."
I then realized I tend to be a worrier and with all the blessings that I've been getting in my life, I guess I should learn to just shrug off those that are really unimportant to me, Paul and our families.

I have to focus on the heart of the matter, continue to keep a more positive outlook in life. Despite how sour some points in life can be, there's always a little touch of sweetness that will make the over-all taste truly satisfying. :)

Have a Blessed Sunday, dear readers! :)


  1. its nice to wake up to these little reminders noh? yes...focus on the heart of the matter franny!!! thats what really counts.

  2. i love the text message :) very simple but meaningful

  3. :) I hate pretentious people with bloated egos too.

  4. I can totally relate to this short, but lovely post.

    I used to be a very carefree individual. But, because of a very unhealthy relationship, I turned into this crazy worrier. After that ended, I felt like I grew 50 years older. *sigh* I'm glad I have friends who were there with me after my fall, who reminded me who I was and I love that I can truly be myself around them. Now, I'm back to being very thankful for the blessings I've been given.

    Have a Blessed week, Fran! :)

  5. @smarla: you got that right!! :)

    @sab: miss u! when's our pepper date?

    @blankpixels: as ria said earlier, it feels good to wake up to reminders like this :) friends are the best :) thanks for the lovely message!

  6. Thanks for sharing that message with us Fran...

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